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« on: December 25, 2008, 03:40:47 am »


The general response from other forums has been extremely depressing. Though the article is based on well founded reasoning, these people hurl copy and pasted hadith-based ulama arguments...their state makes me feel very sad...i try to console myself remembering the verses where the prophet is told to not be upset and to wait until Allah's judgements come. He is the best of judges.

You're absolutely right brother.  This is exactly what happens there.  What this actually means is that these so-called believers try to challenge the Words of Allah with the words of their sheiks and 'saints.'  About such people, Allah has mentioned in the Quraan that now they feel protected taking up for their spiritualists and 'saints' but on the Day of Judgment these so-called saints will forget their disciples and will be busy seeking forgivness for themselves.  And yes, on this issue, the Prophet (pbuh) has been comforted by Allah in several verses not to grieve over the unreasonable arguments of the disbelievers and to ignore their noxious talks.  It's really sad that so many of our brothers and sisters today are behaving on the lines of those people of the Arabian peninsula who were a source of such great anxiety to the beloved Prophet.

I feel closer to those undecided sunnis than the real sunnis who are staunch Hadithists. Alhamdulilah for the few believer friends i have though.

O yes, me too.  and this is how I interpret my feelings.  The Noble Quraan says nothing about the Sunni or Shiia faith.  It only mentions the Islamic faith, that is, Surrender to Allah.  This was the Prophet's message, loud and clear, at the orders of Allah (The Highest).  Therefore, I make it quite plain while interacting in other forums that those who call themselves Sunnis or Shiias are just that.  They aren't Muslims.  One cannot be a Sunni and Muslim together, nor can one be a Shiia and Muslim at the same time.  Sunnism and Shiiaism clash with the Message of the Quraan in numerous ways. 

Moreover, I wouldn't underestimate Shiias either.  They're just as madly in love with Hadith as Sunnis.  I've personally observed and experienced this time and again.  The only difference is that they both have their own separate collections of Hadith.  The contents of those Shiia collections are no more compatible with the Noble Quraan than the collections of Bukhari, Tirmizi etc.  However, the only real difference I've found between the two is that Shiias are better at agreeing to disagree than Sunnis.  Not all, but most of them seem less aggressive and more sober while debating or arguing.  I  give them the credit for that.

The fun of it is that in a Sunni or Shiia forum, if you find two groups consisting of Shiias and Sunnis arguing or quarreling with each other in the traditional way, would you know what's the best way to stop that fight and to unite them together?  Just jump into the scenario as a Muslim who's neither a Sunni nor a Shiia and tell them that you follow only the Quraan.  In a minute you'll find the Sunnis and Shiias shaking hands and rolling up their sleeves to fight with you.  After all, enemy's enemy is always a friend  Smiley  As a Quraan only Muslimah , I've played this role of uniting Sunnis and Shiias in many online quarrels. 
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