Message #12341

[muslima]

I think those ulemas who talk as such are really crazy.  If the husband is a nice man, the wife should also be nice to him.  And if the wife is a nice lady, the husband should be nice to her too.  That goes without saying, syed or no syed.  Being a "syed" or "syeda" is no guarantee for being worthy of respect.  What about those husbands who pick the title of "syed" but are abusive  .. who drink, commit zina, neglect their children and disrespect their wives?  Is the wife still supposed to be respectful to such a husband just because he's a "syed" ?   I wonder what answer the ulemas would have for my query.  Surely they cannot say that syeds are perfect and never unworthy of respect.  My family and I personally know dozens of people with the caption "syed" or "syeda" tagging along their names who are super jerks!
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u are right sister Ruhi but shia's ulmas have their own criteria to prove themselves superiors i have personal experience to spend sometime with them they do disrespect their wives and syadas too disrespect their syed husbands hippocrate conditions are only for non syed lol

 they had legalized the zina with mut'a ? what mor worst ?