jazak Allah sis 100% correct this is a sad fact nowadays , we should be worried about it, todays ignorance & lack of interest will be penalty on the day of judgement.I Agree with both of u sisters , Proper upbringing of kids are basic for their strong faith,please brother and sisters ! living aboard and talk about freedom and children's rights or sending them alone to mosque on weekends is not enough ,beawar what they they are learning in mosques, given children their right does not only means to give them what they need or want rather the meaning of Rights ! is teaching them right & wrong, true & false, correct & incorrect, the right / correct guidance towards faith from childhood ,it is also their Right ,this is the most important and lasting gift we can give to our children ! the knowledge of Quran ,best education does not mean givin them degree in aboard rather means given them ability to fight ignorance and drive away evil/ shaitan , such Education is useless if it's turned them away from faith , from Allah, from Quran .
For all parents Allah stated in Quran ,
O ye who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is Men and Stones.
66:6And those who believe will say Verily, the losers are they who lose themselves and their families on the Day of Resurrection
42:45 And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith, to them shall We join their offspring ( in jannah) and We shall not decrease the reward of their deeds in anything. Every person is a pledge for that which he has earned”.
52:21@ Please wake up ! Following statement reflects the value of the proper upbringing of children. It has an everlasting effect, even after death.with out the knowledge of Quran everything is worthless .
Very Glad to hear about Ur kids sis ruhi .
May Allah ease everything for the presents like U and those who are true blessings for their children's ,May Allah make things easy for all parents, especially Muslim immigrant families , parents with children are currently facing serious issues of horrible misguidance , Are in great loss of faith .