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.......  This includes unmarried girls as young as 14, 15 and 16 giving birth.  In majority of all such cases, children are born after one-night-stands who have no idea who their dads are.  In several cases homeless women too give birth and a few hours later the father disappears forever.   Those little children who are taken away by the social security and find good foster homes are the fortunate ones.  But many aren't so fortunate who stay with their biological mothers.  The mother almost always struggles to bring up her child / children as a "single mom."  Many parents of such women don't have the financial means nor the desire to take care of their unmarried daughter's children. The challenge is often too tough for these women.  Several of them are too immersed in socializing and too young to understand the serious responsibilities involved in bringing up children appropriately.  Lots of children born of such women die of neglect at the hands of their young mothers and their boyfriends, one way or another.  It's no secret, these women seldom or never achieve a single satisfactory goal in life.  More often than not, their lives culminate in addiction - alcohol and drugs.  Because of their young age, apathy and lack of education, many consume alcohol and drugs even during pregnancy, giving birth to children with learning deficiencies like Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder or worse.  In a nutshell, these women and their children suffer irreparable harm, which is certainly avoidable and must never happen.  Will there ever be a 'criminal code'  to discourage, if not prohibit, such horrifying social practices that have been systematically devastating the lives of thousands of women and little children?   In comparison to this, doesn't polygamy take the backseat?  In comparison, aren't the consequences of polygamy much rarer and far easier to resolve?  The answer is definitely yes.

This is really so very sad  Sad and no one is pushed about it, instead making a mountain out of a molehill by picking a few incidents of polygamy here and there. 



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