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Title: Aqiqah Post by: Saadia on October 05, 2023, 05:51:41 pm Salam Alaikum.
Need info on Aqiqah of Muslim children. Is it obligatory, from the Quran? If the child’s parents are not believers, then can some other believing person fulfill this responsibility for the benefit of the child? I need its details and some rational opinion please. Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: Heba E. Husseyn on October 05, 2023, 06:05:52 pm Walaikum As-Salam. Aqiqah is a ceremony in our Muslim society that takes place on the 7th day of a baby's birth, but is sometimes performed later. During this ceremony, generally two animals (goat, sheep, cow or camel) are sacrificed for a baby boy and one for a baby girl. But usually people don’t stick to these numbers and one can sacrifice any number of animals they please for the birth of their child, boy or girl. Sacrificial meat is cooked and shared with family, friends and the community who are in need. One-third for the family, one-third for neighbors/friends and the final third for the poor, though I doubt if currently this rule is accurately followed considering the soaring cost of meat. It symbolizes the baby's purification and readiness for prayer and obedience to Allah. As a customary practice, in some Aqiqah ceremonies the baby is given a taste of honey to reflect the sweetness and beauty of the Noble Quran. Aqiqah is not from the Quran. It’s purely “sunnah,” that is, from hadith with no conformity with the Quran as the Benchmark. Unfortunately 98% of hadith practices and rules do not pass this test. The most common hadith circulated in regard to Aqiqah ceremony is, quote: “Samra bin Jundub RA reported that the Prophet (P.B.U.H) said, “A boy is pledged by his ‘Aqiqah, so slaughter for him on the seventh day, and do it in the name of Allah” (Transmitted by Al Tirmidhi and Abu Dawoud). Additionally our ulemas have put their rules saying that if Aqiqah cannot be arranged on the 7th day, it should be done on the 14th day. If not on the 14th then on the 21st day. If delayed beyond that, then the parents or guardians should sacrifice an animal before the kid reaches puberty. If there has been no Aqiqah even after the kid reaches puberty then that adult kid should arrange the Aqiqah for themselves. These are all from human sources, not the Noble Quran. Thus there is no need for Muslim adults to worry whether or not they had an Aqiqah ceremony as babies. That does not have any bearing on your soul as long as you are sincere to Allah and you have successfully grasped His guidance. It is also taken that the baby should be named on the day of the Aqiqah which also springs from another widely circulated unreliable hadith of Abu Dawud, quote: “The Prophet (saw) said ‘Every baby is held as if in mortgage up to his aqiqah. So, on his seventh day, sacrifice should be made on his behalf, his head should be shaved and he should be given a name.’ ” Seems like this hadith is apparently a later time forgery compared to the one quoted before, because if it’s necessary to name the baby on day of Aqiqah, then obviously the occasion of Aqiqah cannot be delayed until the child reaches puberty. The purpose of Aqiqah is a means of expressing gratitude to Allah for the blessing of having a child. It is also a gesture of seeking the protection of Allah for the newborn from misguidance and all future ills. So, it is basically a gesture of the parents’ or guardians’ commitment of obedience to Allah Almighty. If the parents are skeptics, some other member of the family or extended family can arrange the Aqiqah which will be beneficial for them for their gratitude and trust toward Allah Almighty. As for the babies or infants, they will have to seek guidance of Allah through their own efforts when they turn into adults. After all, Allah guides those who seek His guidance. A mere Aqiqah won’t help to guide any one later in life unless they don’t awaken themselves. Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: Saadia on October 05, 2023, 06:11:29 pm I honestly thank you for this complete information which I didn’t know though I am Muslim. In view of everything you stated on this topic, does it mean that if a Muslim family legally adopts an infant from a non-Muslim family and perform Aqiqah as soon as possible, that won’t be enough to make that baby a Muslim, am I right?
Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: N. Truth Seeker on October 05, 2023, 06:14:28 pm Yes right. Aqiqah is simply a preliminary social event for a newborn child. At that time the child doesn’t even know what is happening around them. As symbolic gestures of bringing an infant within the fold of Islam, you can have the Adhan spoken in their ears and give them a Halal name. That’s it. No need to go any further at this stage. But the Muslim parents must constantly keep up the Quranic teachings for orientation as the child grows, teaching them the importance of Monotheism (Tawheed) and recitation of the Shahadah as the cornerstone. In other words, the foster parents need to follow the same path of education as they would for their biological child. This is the only way to help a child, whether biological or adopted, to grow up into a conscientious adult with awareness of Allah Almighty in their heart and mind. From here onward, those young adults need to put in their own efforts to acquire greater guidance. Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: Saadia on October 05, 2023, 06:16:57 pm Thank you Heba and Truth Seeker again for your very sensible clarifications.
Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: Rehman on October 05, 2023, 06:18:48 pm Other than sacrifice of animal, Aqiqah also involves another charity which could be costly. Some traditional circles have a rule that after the baby’s hair is shaven or cut, it should be weighed and the equivalent value of that weight in silver should be given as Sadaqah to the poor.
Title: Re: Aqiqah Post by: N. Truth Seeker on October 05, 2023, 06:20:15 pm It’s always a positive step to give charity to the poor if one can afford it, but doesn’t have to be equivalent to the weight of silver or any such thing. You can additionally give charity to the deserving in cash or kind, whatever and however much you can afford. It's that simple. |