Message #12931

[Zainab_M]

Q:1 where is writen in Qurn  that Allah is addressing men Only ? or send down Quran only for men ??


who ever believe in houri as female only  i said he or she never understand a single verse of quran

Walaikum Salaam dear sister Muslima.  Yes, this is precisely what I meant.  You got it right on.  But our imams and ulemas take it for granted that all companions in Paradise will be females.  They really haven't understood the Quran at all.  That's because they are completely focused on Hadith which carries such notions that only men will get companions in Paradise and not women.  If you ask them what kind of reward a righteous woman will get in Paradise concerning companions of the opposite gender.  They will say she will meet her husband there.  But what if the husband was a disbeliever and he goes to Hellfire and wife goes to Jannat?  Then who will be her companion in Jannat apart from her family members if they also go to Jannat.  Or, if the righteous woman was unmarried, then who will be her companion?  The imams and sheikhs have no answers for this; that's because as you rightly said they haven't understood the Noble Quran and they are only focused on the Hadith.

Q:2 Are disciples of prophet isa (as) hawari are  female's ??? if hoor mean ONLY female ??

the disciples/apostles/companions of Jesus /Allah's helper for prophet isa (as)

 (see "hawariyyun" in 3:52, 5:111, 5:112 ,61:14)

3:52
فَلَمَّا أَحَسَّ عِيسَىٰ مِنْهُمُ الْكُفْرَ قَالَ مَنْ أَنْصَارِي إِلَى اللَّهِ ۖ قَالَ الْحَوَارِيُّونَ نَحْنُ أَنْصَارُ اللَّهِ آمَنَّا بِاللَّهِ وَاشْهَدْ بِأَنَّا مُسْلِمُونَ

5:111
وَإِذْ أَوْحَيْتُ إِلَى الْحَوَارِيِّينَ أَنْ آمِنُوا بِي وَبِرَسُولِي قَالُوا آمَنَّا وَاشْهَدْ بِأَنَّنَا مُسْلِمُونَ

5:112
إِذْ قَالَ الْحَوَارِيُّونَ يَا عِيسَى ابْنَ مَرْيَمَ هَلْ يَسْتَطِيعُ رَبُّكَ أَنْ يُنَزِّلَ عَلَيْنَا مَائِدَةً مِنَ السَّمَاءِ ۖ قَالَ اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِنْ كُنْتُمْ مُؤْمِنِينَ

61:14

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا كُونُوا أَنْصَارَ اللَّهِ كَمَا قَالَ عِيسَى ابْنُ مَرْيَمَ لِلْحَوَارِيِّينَ مَنْ أَنْصَارِي إِلَى اللَّهِ ۖ قَالَ الْحَوَارِيُّونَ نَحْنُ أَنْصَارُ اللَّهِ ۖ فَآمَنَتْ طَائِفَةٌ مِنْ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ وَكَفَرَتْ طَائِفَةٌ ۖ فَأَيَّدْنَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا عَلَىٰ عَدُوِّهِمْ فَأَصْبَحُوا ظَاهِرِينَ

MashAllah, I read this carefully.  And yes, I also checked Verses 3:52, 5:111, 5:112  and 61:14.  The words l-ḥawāriyūna, l-ḥawāriyīna and lil'ḥawāriyyīna do occur in the Verses you mentioned, and the English translation would be disciples.  I didn't know about this.   Just for my information .. does the word hawariyuna come from hur?  

Q:3 why said men are not be beautiful or handsome ? what about prophet yusuf (pbuh) ? his beauty ?

Exactly.

Q:4 Fair One mean ..??
who are the fair one in paradise ??
 
parhaps in men-made litrature so-callad hadith refer it to white /fair complexion to specify beautiful female apart the hadith blender i dont think Quran refer it to fair skin tone/fair complexion.i find this to be a little racist concept  of ulma's which i am sure not from Allah it  is a 100% error of human nature.dark complexion is just as beautiful as white colour

( Fair )word contain many meanings But in following verse it refer to fair and honest companion..what u say sis ??
 This snces of translation fair one in to fair skin colour is opposite the divine creation,who careate every colour of skin.Allah does not give suppriorety to fair colour over any other skin colour.?  fair one mean honest one NOT fair in fair skin tone .. ??

Very correctly interpreted sister.  MashAllah. Your Quranic insight is really good.  

Hadith interpretation of Jannat is completely wrong, racist and also vulgar.  Whenever you get the time, check our post titled Why do 'Muslims' purposely distort the Quran translations?  I saw an Islamic group at Facebook posting the very wrong translation of Verses 78:31-33.   And do go through the thread of that link as well.  Sister Heba and Br. PT have contributed two very nice pieces in the same thread below the main post.